Friday, December 11, 2009
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Freddy's Family ... Janiel and little Franco
The answer to the question of what happens to Manantial when we leave Nicaragua is that Freddy will continue and we'll be part of it ... from afar for now. Freddy's the President / Vice President AND Secretary-Treasurer. Awesome guy.
We have really enjoyed going to a deeper level of friendship and trust, both on a personal level and as business partners. We originally met him in 2004 ... and have walked with him over the past two years as a single man to a married man to a father. He's in our hearts FOREVER!
Hydroponic boxes built (with love) in Las Chacaras
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Lily Helms was the youngest member on the team, and she had a great time playing in the mud (on purpose), and making friends with a 'free range' pig named "Tocinito" (or "little bacon). Lily entertained the people of Las Chacaras, who may still be unsure why a child would want to #1 play in the mud, #2 play with a pig, #3 put on boxing gloves and play with the boys ... ad infinitum. Though the two cultures are different, all of us - kids and adults alike -experienced NO barriers. We were bound by love and sense of purpose.
Much more than boxes were built ... relationships were. The team baked a cake for Reyna's 23rd birthday, and celebrated with a customary piñata. We spent time together in a beautiful (but poor) setting, backdropped by banana trees, mangoes, guayabas etc. We washed and cut hair (we finished one haircut by the light of an iPhone when darkness descended quickly!), crocheted, visited with neighbors and learned to love on a different level. We held babies and applied lip gloss to little girls - hugged and held them. We enjoyed "Eskimo" ice cream from a cart pushed by the owner/vendor, and took another break to try the national treat of 'raspados' when that cart rolled into the village. Raspados is shaved ice with your choice of flavored syrups on top. We had crushed pineapple in honey, and/or dulce de leche.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Las Chacaras
Silvia is home ...
Silvia died this morning ... from dehydration. Four days ago she ate bad meat and got food poisoning, then had three days of diarrhea and continued weakness. And this morning, she was gone. We learned of her trials yesterday when we visited, and had the opportunity to pray for her before we drove home. Though we left money for Cipro and Powerade to re-hydrate her, it was too late. She was too weak to make it another day. Tomorrow we return for her funeral.
It's hard to let her go. She fought cancer and won (twice), and to die of something so seemingly simple is difficult to wrap our minds around. Our consolation is that she is at total peace, with her Lord and Savior ... and we who cry, cry because we miss her.
Pray for the family and the community. She was a cornerstone there. Everyone has lost either a mother, grandmother, sister or a friend.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Back to square one ... back to Waslala
When we heard of his new-found habits and lifestyle, we sought counsel from trusted friends who know Gener and know his history. Everyone agreed he needed to return to Waslala. He has always known this would be the outcome if he continued to make bad choices. He may not have believed us, as pride, arrogance and a feeling of being 'above the law' rules his behavior – but he has to believe it now. We drove him to Waslala Friday evening, Sept 4. He has no one to blame but himself. Now he is looking at another set of circumstances: an incomplete education, no job, dirt floor, no electricity or running water, no indoor plumbing … and a dream (again) of a better life. Perhaps this will help him change and grow up, but it’s hard to say. Some people have to reach rock bottom in life before they will see the Truth, and Gener is one of those people. We pray that God will reach out to him and not let him fall into a greater darkness. That is our prayer, but the choice once again is his.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Life at the Littles
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Nahum and Gener's new life ...
Both Erick and Karla speak English, which will be good for the boys to continue in the language. Gener is quite good and is also interested to continue with English classes, while Nahum is not very interested and will probably only speak in English around the house. Nahum will continue the cellphone repair class at the trade school. Hopefully, Erick and Karla will one day be able to help them network for jobs. That is something we could never do. It's not what you know - it's WHO you know, and both Erick and Karla have many contacts and connections.
Nineteen months ago when Nahum and Gener entered our home and our care, it was their first step away from the orphanage and into their futures. Now it's the next phase - a time to enter real life in Nicaragua, a life they'll do well to understand and manuever within. It's scary and it's exciting ... and it's necessary for their success. Their last 7 years have been spent in "protection" mode, with others caring, providing, protecting them so they didn't have to think or worry about much. It may not always have been fun, but was safe. They would rather have been with their family (who wouldn't?), but that wasn't an option. Basically, most of their 'life experience' for the past 7 years has been heavily gringo instead of Nicaraguan. We are gringos (obvious!). And in the orphanage the kids live to see visiting gringo teams, which mean presents, pizza and good times. Though this is their past, it is not their future. They will do well to learn another way.
As for us, we just entered the empty nest period and can watch them from afar and be a 'catch net' if necessary before we return to the U.S.. We're glad to know WHERE they are and with whom they share. We have a mental picture of them on their bikes, on the streets near the Huembes market, playing basketball and soccer with neighborhood kids near Don Bosco and in renovated parks. We are relieved and at peace that God provided an open door to their future with a young couple in their late 20's ... which should also be more fun! We've talked to them and text-messaged with them, and they are having fun - making new friends - playing volleyball with neighborhood youth - helping fix Erick's car - etc. They are not bored!
The same day he moved in, Gener made a friend with one of their two dogs ... and was happily playing with it on the street. Isidro (our gardener) talked to Nahum, and he said that Nahum is enjoying his new place.
God is good. All the time.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Celebration in San Juan del Sur
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Another part of life here in Managua
It’s satisfying to share time and interest with other ministries, to meet new people, and expand friendship circles here in Managua. What began as a Manantial project to make jewelry to support families in Las Chacaras is now a skill-set and money-making project shared every week with over 200 prostitutes at April Havlin’s “House of Hope.” Each Tuesday, many of these women ride a bus to the House of Hope to earn money making earrings. They seek to change their lives ... and the earrings, when sold, support the House. Though the craft is fun, the best part for me is encouraging the ladies, sharing a laugh as I stumble through with my broken Spanish … making them laugh and letting them know 'we're all the same' and I approve of their efforts to attain a better life (or earn money in a different way).
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
A drive to Matiguas
In Nicaragua, every citizen must have a Cedula (much akin to a national ID card) in order to open a bank account, get a job, attend university, etc. And so it is that Nahum and Gener need Cedulas for their future - including their future to enter the military. They will take an entrance exam in October, but are not able to take the test without a Cedula.
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Friday, June 12, 2009
Costa Rica - "Pura Vida"
We recently drove the Pan American Highway to Costa Rica with our friends Carlos and Vilena … who needed paperwork to become “residents” of Nicaragua. As the new directors of Casa Bernabe, ‘residency’ here is required. For us, the trip afforded an opportunity to see Costa Rica from the ground and see how it differs from Nicaragua. There is more industry, more wealth, and with regards to viewing the land … every spare parcel seems planted with coffee – or bananas – or another crop. We saw farms and we saw small crops planted in between large indigenous trees in order to use space wisely. It all looked very much like a living green quilt.
For three days, we visited our old friend, Maikol, and shared his birthday … cake and ice cream (for dinner)! In July, he will come for two months to help Carlos and Vilena at Casa Bernabe. We also met new friends, Rodrigo and Idee, who opened their home to us – housed and fed us – and told us why we should live in Costa Rica rather than any other place. They even arranged for a tour of a new house across the street to tempt us!
Holly and Melissa stayed home and ‘babysat’ Nahum and Gener (and Louie) … and enjoyed the freedom of a big house and ‘no particular schedule.’ After living at Casa Bernabe for 2-3 months, they’re still reveling in being able to eat whatever they want, whenever they want. Four jars of peanut butter later (hahahaha no kidding - we opened a fifth one last night…) The ‘current thing’ is to spread PB on the whole bananas and on oatmeal cookies, and call it health food. It’s a pleasure to open our home to North Americans and model hospitality and our weird idiosyncracies to Nahum and Gener.
In October, Nahum and Gener will test to enter the military. Gener is totally focused on being a pilot, so much so that though he is taking accounting and doing well, he deems accounting only as a backup plan. Nahum also wants to test into the military, but we’re not sure what he wants to do. It is only months now until they ‘fly the coop.’ Unbelieveable! It’s a year and a half later with a half year to go. Time waits for no man FOR SURE.
In the time that is left here in Nicaragua, we remain dedicated to continue Manantial, and also help other ministries. One day a week we help Carlos and Vilena at the orphanage/school/farm. Also, I have volunteered at a “home” for 60+ prostitutes who are getting ‘out of the trade.’ Some were sold into it – others have equally awful stories. The ministry is ‘Casa Esperanza,’ and is managed and run by April Havlin. To help support this ‘Casa,’ the ladies make greeting cards and now earrings to sell to teams who visit. Some of their crafts are also shipped to the United States for sale. In addition to the 60 residents, an additional 100+ ladies arrive by bus once a week to make the cards and earrings. Holly and Melissa go with me to help communicate and encourage the ladies as they make earrings.
Sometimes John and I look at each other, totally amazed that we’re in Nicaragua (to begin with) and that we’ve traveled a road we never dreamed of traveling. Thank you for your help – for your prayers – for your support of every kind. You are an integral part of the Plan we’re walking.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Four Days in Costa Rica
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Monday, May 18, 2009
Sharing our Home
Holly will also live with us until ???? (maybe a loooonnnng time), as her volunteer stint at Casa Bernabe is ending and she's taking a job with the Nehemiah Center here in Managua. BTW, this is a different Holly ... she's the same age, from the same church in Portland ... but is not our first Holly. Both Holly and Melissa have joined us in our work with Manantial, and will soon be part of the household here.
Then in late July, Holly will continue to live here and we'll welcome Angela from our home church in Portland. Angela will spend a month and experience a different sort of adventure after she completes her first year at U of O. We love her entire family, and look forward to having her join ours for a time. She and Holly will have a chance to talk about "the Ducks!" as they're both from the U of O, and both also speak Spanish! Fun is ahead ...
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Reunion with their youngest brother, Saul
After 10 months of separation, Saul, Nahum and Gener were reunited for a week here at our home in Nicaragua. They hadn't seen each other in person (other than via Skype) for ten months.
During their visit, the three boys huddled in a bedroom, giggled, complained and spent the hours together after our boys got out of school every day (noon on M-F). They also had Sunday and Monday off (totally) because it was Holy Week here, and so they got even more time together.
Best of all (for us) is that we were able to sit for hours and enjoy Andrea! We're connected in a lot of ways, and so it was wonderful to talk about the boys - their progress - their lack of progress - idiosyncracies - etc. and share more deeply. We have known her since 2005, but our relationship deepened as we got to spend time with her last year while she was waiting for the adoption to be complete. Every time we see her, our friendship is deeper and we appreciate her so much.
The brothers have each other and always will. We gained a sister and a friend.
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Chickens, Eggs and Hope for a Future
Thank you for helping make this possible! It was a fine hour in transformational development of La Ceiba's people. We look forward to whatever is next.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
There are chickens in La Ceiba ... and sewing in Las Chacaras
Next week we will pour a cement pad under the sewing area to prevent material and clothing from being dirtied / stained when dropped on the dirt floor. After this is done (in a week or so), we'll pour the cement foundation for the pig area.
We are thinking seriously of celebrating the chickens by bringing a white sheet, a projector and the movie "Chicken Run" (in Spanish, of course) and then spending an evening in La Ceiba ... outside the chicken house. Nicaraguans have GREAT senses of humor, and ... well ... we're hoping this will be appreciated and enjoyed ... and will not be understood by the chickens. :).
Enjoy the pictures ... celebrate with us. God is good - all the time.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Celebrating Las Chacaras
Yesterday, we spoke of the past, enjoyed the present, and looked to the future ... more projects are on the horizon. Enjoy the pics - and come join us if you want.