After 10 months of separation, Saul, Nahum and Gener were reunited for a week here at our home in Nicaragua. They hadn't seen each other in person (other than via Skype) for ten months.
It took a little more than two years of navigating the Nicaraguan adoption process for Andrea and Brant Fisher to bring him home to their family in Indiana, where they live with their other three (younger) sons. So, during their Spring Break this April, Andrea and Saul took a little time to visit, and we were glad to see them. Saul was glad to see Nahum and Gener, and also glad to have the opportunity to once again see their father and one of their other brothers, Nelson.
As you know, Nahum and Gener were over the age limit for adoption into the U.S., which was a huge motivator in our decision to move to Nicaragua. We never thought we'd make such a move - weren't looking for an opportunity to live in a third world country hahahaha - but life happens and decisions are made. We understood their plight and decided to provide a home and support them as they finished school. The alternative would have been for them to return to extreme poverty - having had a glimpse of education and a glimpse of what they 'could have had.' So here we are!
During their visit, the three boys huddled in a bedroom, giggled, complained and spent the hours together after our boys got out of school every day (noon on M-F). They also had Sunday and Monday off (totally) because it was Holy Week here, and so they got even more time together.
Best of all (for us) is that we were able to sit for hours and enjoy Andrea! We're connected in a lot of ways, and so it was wonderful to talk about the boys - their progress - their lack of progress - idiosyncracies - etc. and share more deeply. We have known her since 2005, but our relationship deepened as we got to spend time with her last year while she was waiting for the adoption to be complete. Every time we see her, our friendship is deeper and we appreciate her so much.
The brothers have each other and always will. We gained a sister and a friend.
During their visit, the three boys huddled in a bedroom, giggled, complained and spent the hours together after our boys got out of school every day (noon on M-F). They also had Sunday and Monday off (totally) because it was Holy Week here, and so they got even more time together.
Best of all (for us) is that we were able to sit for hours and enjoy Andrea! We're connected in a lot of ways, and so it was wonderful to talk about the boys - their progress - their lack of progress - idiosyncracies - etc. and share more deeply. We have known her since 2005, but our relationship deepened as we got to spend time with her last year while she was waiting for the adoption to be complete. Every time we see her, our friendship is deeper and we appreciate her so much.
The brothers have each other and always will. We gained a sister and a friend.